This article is a graduate's article, published on the blog "Graduate Articles for Friends of Creative Visioning" and is not part of the method.
Is there life after death? There are more than two answers to this question. Every person is entitled to their own opinion.
Various theories have been developed on this subject, some known and some unknown. However, no theory can be proven with absolute certainty. What is certain is that total annihilation does not coincide in time with the death of a person's physical body. Those who have lost a close relative at a young age know that this is true.
And now another question. Can we communicate with a person who has died? If we really want to, we can try. But we need to know with whom, how, and when.
I will tell you about my own experiences so that you can draw your own conclusions about the reasons that made me investigate the subject further. The first time I happened to communicate with a dead person, it was in my teens with a close relative. He had died four days before.
When I saw her, I was not afraid at all. On the contrary, her presence calmed me. I did not understand exactly what she was saying to me, but it was as if she were saying goodbye to me. A year later, I tried to call her to see her again. I repeatedly stated my desire, but nothing happened. The only strange thing that happened was that a small piece of paper moved onto my desk with all the windows closed.
From then on, I started reading everything I could find and talking to friends who had similar concerns. Six years later, with four friends, we tried calling one of our grandfathers.
The session took place at my house, and we ended up running away, leaving the front door open for half an hour. That night, the constant noises wouldn't let me sleep. The next day, I sprinkled the whole house with holy water and burned male frankincense and dried aloe resin. The noises stopped, but I decided not to do anything like that again until I found information on how to do such a session without losing control.
In 1994, I found myself as a simple observer at a similar session, where I saw with my own eyes, the so-called spirit of the person appearing out of nowhere, looking alive and speaking in a deep voice, answering questions and expressing some wishes to his loved ones. When asked how he was where he was, he always answered with the same phrase:
“Don’t worry, I’m fine here.”
When asked if he wanted to be invited again, he asked that it be on his grandson's 16th birthday, with the child present.
I later learned from the child's parents that to fulfill what the grandfather wanted, the grandson postponed an excursion he was going to take that day, thus saving him from certain death!!
Several such experiences followed, from which I gained knowledge of how the calling of a deceased person should be done. I myself communicated with my father eight months after his death. The key points for an effective and "quiet" session are the following:
The person to be called should have been good in life.
For the first time, prefer a familiar person.
He should be called after the 40-day memorial service so that he has had time to adjust to his new situation.
Light 120 to 180 candles in the room to drink wine, a mixture that you will make by mixing "anama" with the best red you can find, serving a glass for him as well.
Those present should eat a bite of consecrated bread, sprinkled with holy water, at the beginning of the session. Next to your guest's glass, also leave a bite of bread.
It is advisable to have no more than five people. One person will make the call and ask questions, and the rest will not speak to each other.
You should not cry, you should not cross yourself during the session. Anyone who becomes too scared should leave.
Avoid having the session in the last three days before the new moon.
One day beforehand, incense the space by mixing aloe, myrrh, cloves, rue, mastic, and male frankincense in equal quantities.
Be sure to ask him if he came of his own free will and at the end of the session, if he wants to be called back.